Power Struggles and Struggling with Power

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A man in a suit and cape is standing next to his shadow.

Author: Jesse Adams, MSc, President and Founder of Ember Experience  

Over the last year, I have noticed an interesting tension and unease arising in the leadership journey for many of my clients. The last several years have brought disruption, questions around privilege and identity, and challenged responsibilities for leadership and workplaces, all while facing severe strain (physically, emotionally, mentally, and culturally). At the root of this discomfort is the controversial topic of power. The question many are grappling with internally is some variation of “How do we lean into our power without asserting it over someone else?”.

Power has many forms; the “big three” that often come up in my conversations are:  

  • Privilege or advantage-based power
          - We may power hold based on various demographic, lifestyle or cultural factors (e.g. gender, race, religious ideals etc.) 
  • Positional or decision-making power
          - A result of our function in the organization (e.g., manager vs. staff, VP vs. manager).  
  • Expertise power
          - Perception that our education, credentials or lived experience may mean we “know” more” about a subject then another person.  

Let's focus on “positional power” because this one seems to be top of mind for folks in leadership positions to juggle and understand. 

These insights are presented to act as a guide or a mirror in helping you reflect on your leadership journey.

#1: Something that may be small in the moment can create big impacts down the line  

Leadership decisions, actions, or conversations with staff will usually result in a ripple effect through our people and the organization. By the very nature of the role, our words/choices/actions carry weight. The impacts can be very positive. Small actions like a thank you, recognizing staff contribution, or taking the time to listen to an employee’s concerns have a tremendous positive impact on staff empowerment, engagement, and motivation. However, the opposite is also true. These same small words/choices/actions can create chaos within an organization. I have seen multiple times where organizational priorities change, time is ineffectively used through constant rework, resources are wasted, or an increase in staff frustration, burnout and miscommunication. This is particularly true when expectations or the conditions of the meeting are not clearly set. In these situations, it’s common for staff to feel frustrated, confused, dismissed or unimportant.  

Insight #2: Ignoring the realities of power doesn’t equate to humility or strong leadership  

This insight is best illustrated with a personal example. I am someone who wants to always be supportive and walk beside the person I am interacting with, meaning I show up to interactions striving to be vulnerable, understand their experience and connect to the whole person. The last thing I want is to create a feeling that I am above someone, seeking to control them, or that I am better than the other person. In this pursuit, I have avoided and sometimes suppressed the reality of being the leader or “boss” of the organization. I end up approaching all leadership situations in a style that would be passive vs. assertive, or suggestive vs. directive as I thought it was “bad” to use these styles.  To read the full story click here.

Insight #3 Exploring the dimensions of power is empowering

We all hold power. Power is very contextual and can change depending on the environment. However, working to better understand different types of power we may hold, and the blind spots it creates, influencing our thinking and behaviours is a critical step to owning and focusing on it with intention.  

A few resources I have used to explore this paradigm are:  

Insight #4 Having compassion for yourself, and take responsibility is stepping into your personal power

The process for change will not be linear, it will be uncomfortable, and we will make mistakes. Although we can hold high expectations of ourselves, we need to remember we are human. Being a human is hard, and we will regularly experience unexpected obstacles, barriers, or challenges along our journey. Taking a moment to consider the context of why we did what we did and the factors that may have added to what we did, can help prevent us from spiralling in shame and open our willingness and own our role, take responsibility for what we can control, and act going forward.

Insight #5 Asking for help is a sign of strength

As humans, social connection is imprinted on our DNA. It is an integral part of our existence, survival, and ability to thrive. As leaders, there is an added pressure of “knowing the right thing to do.” Almost as if we inherit a title and all the knowledge and skills that are required to fulfill that role.  As much as we may think we can do it alone, at minimum it is not optimal, and at most we can’t. Seeking help, from a trusted peer, coach, or mentor, or inviting your staff into the reality that you are human too, will increase our capacity to change, reframe our perspectives, foster greater accountability, and enable us to fail more gracefully and productively.   

Honouring and respecting your power is about accepting responsibility for the wake and impact is has/leads to. As popularized in Spiderman “with great power comes great responsibility". Learning to lean in responsibly and using your power to empower others is the work all leaders need to do and explore.  our leadership journey. 



The views and opinions expressed in this blog post belong solely to the original author(s) and do not necessarily represent the views and opinions of CPHR Alberta.


The views and opinions expressed in this blog post belong solely to the original author(s) and do not necessarily represent the views and opinions of CPHR Alberta.



By Bailey Beauchamp June 8, 2026
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By Jessica Jaithoo May 22, 2026
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Understanding Trust in the Indigenous Workplace Context Trust for Indigenous employees is influenced by a history of colonization, systemic discrimination, and inequities that affect employment experiences today. Data from Statistics Canada (2022) reveals that Indigenous people are more likely to experience workplace discrimination than non-Indigenous employees (15.2% versus 9.1%), and they are also less likely to remain in roles long-term, with only 32.0% reporting tenures of 10 years or more compared to 37.3% of non-Indigenous workers. Statistics like these reveal the lower levels of psychological safety that Indigenous employees feel at work. Building psychological safety for this marginalized group therefore requires HR and leadership to move from performative inclusion to more meaningful and relationship-based practices that are centered around trust, respect, and inclusion. The Role of HR and leadership in Building Trust Building trust with Indigenous employees is a shared responsibility that requires both HR and leaders to work in sync. We will discuss the roles of both parties below. 1. Mentorship Indigenous employees who are new to the workforce might be unfamiliar with systems, procedures, and expectations. A mentorship program, opportunities for leadership development or training, or a buddy system that pairs them with an employee guide and supports them throughout their first few months or longer can be beneficial for these workers. An effective mentorship program will require organizational leadership to endorse and prioritize mentorship initiatives while HR works with managers to design and implement mentorship programs that will meet each employee’s development needs. When done right, Indigenous mentorship programs can bridge the cultural gaps and create safe spaces for growth and promote psychological safety. 2. 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To achieve this, organizational leaders must commit to fostering a culturally safe, trauma-informed workplace that respects Indigenous traditions, prohibits discrimination, and creates environments where Indigenous employees feel safe to speak up. Clear reporting avenues and prompt action to concerns should be addressed. HR’s part in this initiative is to provide Indigenous based employee assistance programs like Indigenous-specific counselling resources, elder support, and land-based healing programs where accessible. Also, promoting a supportive workplace culture, fostering inclusive team environments where Indigenous employees feel supported and valued. 4. Integrating Cultural Inclusion in Workplace Practices This is another shared responsibility between HR and leadership. 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Organizational leaders are responsible for supporting employee growth and development, encouraging participation in career advancement pathways, and demonstrating commitment to equity and inclusion. The following experience report offers a real-world example of how the trust-building principles outlined above can be put into practice through partnership, flexibility, and shared accountability. Experience Report: Building Trust Through an Indigenous Employment Partnership by Rike Enss In 2024, my HR team attended a career fair at Norquest College where they were approached by leaders of the Indigenous Career Centre, an external facing program of the college located right next to Norquest. The Indigenous Career Centre (ICC) connects Indigenous talent s with their employer partners. So, the conversation was two-fold, finding an employer partner that could support employment opportunities. As a company who has Indigenous Partnerships as a strategic pillar and actively connects with Indigenous communities to support each other, we were very open to connecting and hearing how we can engage. From there, many conversations and meetings were held, where we got to know each other and actively connected on what this partnership could look like, as we are mostly a seasonal employer. Most of our jobs are entry level and all one needs are 3 safety tickets. Even that could be quite a challenge for some Indigenous job seekers. But the Indigenous Career Centre was there to help, and able to financially support job seekers with getting these tickets through funding or other means. Before the whole partnership could begin, a formal Pipe Ceremony was held in February of 2025, where leaders from both sides came together to ground our relationship and affirm our intention to walk together side by side, helping each other and our job seekers. As a company, we also knew we needed to be a bit more flexible than our usual approach, and that wasn’t hard to achieve. Partnering with ICC and consistent and open feedback and communication made this possible. In the spring of 2025, my HR team was actively recruiting from ICC. We started with 6 people entering into our weeklong training that is required to work as a safety watch. Of the 6, we had 1 person remaining who started working with us, but what a shining star! Even though we weren’t successful in having the other 5 start work, we have had great experiences and gained some valuable learnings. When we started our recruitment approach in the fall, we changed our process to allow for more time to obtain tickets, provide additional support during the process, and make sure expectations were clear and set. As a result, ICC was also able to source better candidates who would be a good fit for the oil and gas industry and potentially available to be away from home. 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