Showing up in Mentorship Relationships
I first joined the mentorship program after moving to Alberta, with 1 year of HR experience under my belt. I was about to join a small, family run business as an HR department of 1. I felt nervous and filled with imposter syndrome when I came across the CPHR Mentorship program.
My mentor helped me build and develop the skills and confidence to master that role because we built and strengthened our relationship over time.
Fast forward 8 years and I finally felt in a place ready to give back to the community that has given so much to me, I signed up to be a mentor. I was enthusiastic about the opportunity to share and impart my wisdom and learned experiences with someone else. It felt important to me, but unfortunately, my first formal foray into mentorship was not what I expected. My protege lacked drive and initiative, they were disengaged and failed to prioritize the relationship, and there were times there was no communication at all.
Being in a successful and gratifying mentorship relationship is something that takes dedication. It does not occur by happenstance, rather commitment from both parties. The output is only ever as good as the input, before we commit to a mentorship relationship, whether as a protege or mentor, it is imperative that we set a foundation. In the same way we have expectations of our colleagues or bosses in the workplace, we need to have transparency to understand what each party hopes to obtain out of the relationship, what is their goal.
So how do we create and build strong mentoring relationships?
- Communicate, be honest & transparent. This should come as no surprise, but the foundation of any good relationship is communicating, and doing so openly. When you initiate your mentorship, in your first meeting you should discuss how you want to communicate (be that text message, email, phone call), how frequently you intend on communicating and meeting, will you meet in person, or virtually? If something isn’t working, or you have an emergency that arises, it should go without saying that you need to actively communicate that with the other person.
(It’s important to note that within the CPHR Alberta Mentorship Guidelines, it is the responsibility of the Mentee to initiate and take the lead with setting up meetings and communication. ) - Do your homework. Come prepared to your meetings, time is precious and each person is taking time out of their day to participate. To ensure you get the most out of the relationship, provide your mentor with questions or problems ahead of your meeting so they have an opportunity to prepare. Most meetings you attend at work have an agenda assigned beforehand, your mentorship should be no different, at least in the beginning.
- Be respectful. Everyone gets it, life can happen, sometimes we can no longer meet our commitment, our schedule changes, however just as you would in the workplace or meeting a friend for coffee, if you won’t be attending, you need to actively communicate and let the other person know.
- Recognize privilege. This year CPHR Alberta had 113 applicants sign up to be a protege, and only 87 number of individuals to be mentors. This meant in the most recent cycle 23 % of individuals went unmatched. It’s important to realize that being part of a mentorship program is a privilege, we need to make sure we are respecting people's time, and if we aren’t valuing the experience, then we should afford others the opportunity who really do want to be there.
While my first time as a mentor may not have gone as planned, I’m still eager to get back out there and share my expertise with otherwise. One negative experience, shouldn’t keep others from benefiting from the CPHR Mentorship program.
Have a mentorship story you’d like to share? Interested in participating and learning more about the CPHR Mentorship?
Please reach out to Lynda Bergeron at
lbergeron@cphrab.ca
The views and opinions expressed in this blog post belong solely to the original author(s) and do not necessarily represent the views and opinions of CPHR Alberta.
The views and opinions expressed in this blog post belong solely to the original author(s) and do not necessarily represent the views and opinions of CPHR Alberta.
Over the past month, I spoke with three professionals who had recently been laid off. April , a former schoolmate, has over 20 years of experience and has held management roles at several organizations. Most recently, she led a team at a large oil and gas company, where she was instrumental in building out a new service area. Despite her accomplishments, a combination of economic challenges and a lack of connection with her new boss led to her dismissal. Having been involved in layoffs before, she understood the process, but when she called me, she admitted it was much harder to be on the receiving end. She felt overwhelmed by a mix of emotions: denial, anger, betrayal, and a deep sense of failure. Carol , once a mentee of mine, built a strong foundation in the finance sector, and her persistence earned her a team lead role at a competitive mid-sized firm. Therefore, her call caught me off guard; she was trying to make sense of being included in a round of layoffs that affected 12 others. Having just been promoted, she struggled to understand why she had been chosen. She reached out for support as she navigated both the practical and emotional aftermath. Joe had been a student in one of my classes. With a master’s degree and excellent communication skills, he established a respected career in the regional non-profit sector. We maintained contact and often crossed paths through work. Joe was frequently involved in launching new initiatives and was recognized by both his boss and the board for his contributions. However, when the sector faced financial strain, he and his manager were among the 15% let go. He contacted me a month after the layoff; he had taken time to process everything and was now reflecting on what direction to take next. These stories are not uncommon. In fact, with ongoing economic uncertainty, many professionals, regardless of their experience or performance, are facing unexpected career changes. While layoffs are always challenging, the way they are handled can significantly impact both the individuals affected and the organization. This highlights a critical challenge for organizations: how can companies manage necessary workforce changes with both strategic foresight and genuine care? In addition to engaging the Human Resources department early in the planning and execution process, many businesses are increasingly recognizing the value of utilizing third-party outplacement services. Outplacement services are employer-sponsored programs designed to support both the business and departing employees during layoffs or organizational restructuring. Typically included as part of a severance package, these services offer more than just logistical support; they help individuals navigate a difficult transition with confidence. Outplacement services can be customized based on the needs and budget of the employer. Offerings often include planning for workforce reductions in collaboration with the business, delivering termination messages, and providing one-on-one career transition coaching and emotional support to affected staff. More importantly, these services help affected employees regain focus by offering practical job search guidance, resume coaching, and career direction tailored to their experience and industry. For employers, outplacement services can deliver a clear return on investment. Companies that provide structured transition support often experience fewer legal disputes and benefit from a stronger employer brand, which can positively influence talent attraction and retention. Showing care during a difficult time speaks volumes to internal teams, affected employees, clients, and the broader market. Having worked closely with businesses and professionals throughout this process, I’ve witnessed the significant difference that experienced, neutral third-party support can make. In fact, a 2023 CBIZ report, referencing Bureau of Labor Statistics data, noted that individuals who received outplacement assistance secured new roles 40% faster than those who did not receive support (CBIZ, 2023). Just imagine if April had access to a coach experienced in private sector transitions, or if Carol had received immediate help with processing her layoff and planning her next steps; the positive impact would have been immediate. In today’s environment, outplacement isn’t merely a nice option; it is a strategic necessity. How will your organization ensure a respectful and supportive transition for its workforce? When selecting an outplacement partner, consider factors such as industry experience, the ability to customize services, the quality of career coaches, and the integration of digital tools for job seekers. Not all providers offer the same level of support or results, so thorough vetting is essential.
The countdown to the CPHR Alberta 2025 Conference has officially begun!
As the governing voice of CPHR Alberta, the Board of Directors meet quarterly to provide oversight and guidance in several key areas. The Board, alongside CPHR Alberta operations, continues to deliver on the association's strategic priorities developed in the 2020 strategic plan. To ensure transparency between our Board of Directors, members and key stakeholders, we share post-meeting messages to inform the steps taken towards advancing our profession and ensuring a financially stable association. The Board of Directors met on June 24, 2025, and the Board’s key messages are as follows: Financial Update CPHR Alberta remains in a stable financial position with a forecasted break-even year-end as per the approved Budget. The Board reappointed Cascade Chartered Professional Accountants LLP as auditor for 2025–2027. Strategic Planning The Board held a focused one-day Strategic Refocus Workshop to explore how CPHR Alberta delivers value to its members. This work will guide the development of an updated three-year strategic plan, aligned with the evolving needs of the profession. Self-Regulation The Professional Governance Act received Royal Assent in May 2025 and Royal Proclamation expected for Spring 2026. CPHR Alberta anticipates review of its self-regulation application in Spring 2027. Ongoing work focuses on legislative alignment, internal readiness, and member communications. CPHR Alberta Conference Join us at the CPHR Alberta 2025 Conference, Human-Centric HR on September 23–24 in Edmonton. Be sure to stop by the CPHR Alberta booth to meet and connect with your Board of Directors. The next Board meeting will take place on September 22, 2025, after which we will share our key messages. If you have any questions regarding these key messages or the Board of Directors, please contact chair@cphrab.ca . We welcome your feedback!
