Behind Mentorship Matchmaking

Author : Rike Enss

What is your background?
I’ve been in HR since 2008 and worked in various industries, like construction, transportation, oil & gas, and utilities. My roles mostly contributed to recruitment, but I have been in an HR Business Partner role for the last 2 years. 
 
How did you come to be a matchmaker?
In August 2022, I joined the Mentorship Committee, and as time came closer to the applications for the mentorship intake, I was approached by our facilitator, Lynda, and I said yes! So, this last turnaround was my 3rd time matching.
 
What do you enjoy about matching?
I love the success stories! What I really like to hear is things like “We extended our relationship by 6 months.”, or “This was so beneficial, I am applying again.” We often also see that in the intake, and it’s nice to see that people come back for the 2nd, 3rd, or even 10th time, either on the mentor or mentee side. And it’s super cool to see that someone who was mentored before is now ready to take on the mentorship role. It’s so nice to see people growing in their professional lives. 
Matching is fun! The little time we have can be quite challenging when it comes to matching as the intake closes, and then we have 1 week to match. But we all have full-time jobs, families, and a life. However, it is a really great feeling when you sort through the profiles and you have that perfect match for someone. With every time we match, we also grow a little and know what to look out for a bit better than last time. 
On a personal level, I have been a mentor a few times and I am still in touch with all my proteges. You can build long-lasting relationships, for sure on the professional level, but also on a personal level if it comes to that. 
 
What is challenging? 
There are a few things. We constantly try to improve our intake questions to better match everyone’s preferences. But that’s also the problem. We don’t always have that “perfect” match. 
I had a case in the last intake where a mentee desperately wanted someone from the construction industry, and I found the (in my mind) perfect match! But the mentor wanted someone from the same chapter and the mentee was from a different chapter. However, I matched them regardless as I felt this could be such a beneficial relationship. I know it's not ideal, and sometimes people probably wonder why their preferences weren’t matched, but I want to assure everyone that we try everything to take all preferences into consideration. It’s just not always doable, and the more we match, the fewer applications we have available. On the plus side, and because I had a few other examples, we are now adding “industry” to the intake form. We previously asked for the company, but we cannot know 250+ companies and what exactly they do. There is lots of Googling going on. Knowing their industry will be very helpful.
What we also really need is more people with unionized experience on the mentor side. A lot of mentees are asking for that, and we don’t have enough, but this environment is very different than open shop. 
We aim to make this a memorable and valuable experience and relationship for all matches. What we often miss is feedback. Even if it’s blunt, we need it. But then it’s also important to realize the expectations and the limitations of the program. 
 
What have been other changes since you started matching?
We added the question if you want to be matched with someone from your chapter. Coming out of COVID, that was a big thing for people. They wanted to meet in person. But it’s also nice to see that COVID opened some unexplored doors, and many of our matches now meet over Teams or Zoom or long distances but can still connect. 
Another change we have made on our part is using Google tables for matchmaking. Previously, the matchmakers would meet in person and try to get everyone done. Sometimes it’s nice to sit on a profile and think it through before making a call instantly.
We also added peer-to-peer, and this last intake, I had my own first peer-to-peer session, and I love it! It’s a completely different level to come up with solutions and sometimes just share ideas.
 
What advice do you have?
Many! If you haven’t mentored or proteged before, I strongly encourage you to consider it. Use the CPHR tools on the website; don’t overthink it, and make it a relationship. If your match doesn’t work out, don’t be discouraged. It’s hard to know personalities from a spreadsheet (what we get as matchmakers), so sometimes it may not work. Reach back out to CPHR and ask for a new match. Just be professional about it. Consider your own expectations, and be a little flexible and a bit forgiving if not everything works out to your standard.
Also – keep in mind that your mentor will mostly share their own personal experience. 2 mentors may give you some completely different advice on the same question. Take what works for you and your situation. It’s a give-and-take relationship. 
Another point to make if you want to be part of the HR community – it doesn’t have to be mentoring. Networking and building community are fun! Attend functions and events. Check out other committees. I’m part of another committee (Edmonton Chapter Committee), and I have built great relationships with that committee and feel like I’m part of a community. 
 
What do you do in your personal life?
I’ve been married for over 18 years and have 2 girls (9 and 13). The extracurricular keeps us busy enough, but we had to add 6 pets to our household, 4 cats and 2 dogs; they are all rescues. I feel like there’s always room for more but not everyone agrees. I started my MBA last year in September, so also attend school every few weekends. And I’m working out 6 times a week, mostly running. That is so important for my mental health and to decompress. 

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The views and opinions expressed in this blog post belong solely to the original author(s) and do not necessarily represent the views and opinions of CPHR Alberta.

 


The views and opinions expressed in this blog post belong solely to the original author(s) and do not necessarily represent the views and opinions of CPHR Alberta.



By Jessica Jaithoo May 22, 2026
Trust is the foundation of any successful workplace, and for Indigenous employees, it is defined by historical, social, and political realities that organizations must acknowledge and understand. Building trust with Indigenous employees goes beyond basic diversity policies to a more informed and meaningful action plan towards achieving a respectful, equitable workplace and a commitment to reconciliation. According to Alberta Learning Information Service (ALIS), a commitment to building a trusting relationship between employers and Indigenous employees is not only an ethical responsibility but also creates a strategic business advantage. Human Resources and leadership play a crucial role in building this trust by intentionally integrating inclusion, trust, and accountability into all aspects of the workplace. Understanding Trust in the Indigenous Workplace Context Trust for Indigenous employees is influenced by a history of colonization, systemic discrimination, and inequities that affect employment experiences today. Data from Statistics Canada (2022) reveals that Indigenous people are more likely to experience workplace discrimination than non-Indigenous employees (15.2% versus 9.1%), and they are also less likely to remain in roles long-term, with only 32.0% reporting tenures of 10 years or more compared to 37.3% of non-Indigenous workers. Statistics like these reveal the lower levels of psychological safety that Indigenous employees feel at work. Building psychological safety for this marginalized group therefore requires HR and leadership to move from performative inclusion to more meaningful and relationship-based practices that are centered around trust, respect, and inclusion. The Role of HR and leadership in Building Trust Building trust with Indigenous employees is a shared responsibility that requires both HR and leaders to work in sync. We will discuss the roles of both parties below. 1. Mentorship Indigenous employees who are new to the workforce might be unfamiliar with systems, procedures, and expectations. A mentorship program, opportunities for leadership development or training, or a buddy system that pairs them with an employee guide and supports them throughout their first few months or longer can be beneficial for these workers. An effective mentorship program will require organizational leadership to endorse and prioritize mentorship initiatives while HR works with managers to design and implement mentorship programs that will meet each employee’s development needs. When done right, Indigenous mentorship programs can bridge the cultural gaps and create safe spaces for growth and promote psychological safety. 2. Cultural Competency and Awareness Training Cultural competency has become a critical skill in managing today’s diverse workforce and the major aim of this training is to create awareness and/or improve the understanding of various cultures and beliefs in the workplace while equipping staff with skills required to seamlessly communicate, collaborate, and respectfully work with people from different backgrounds. Leaders must champion this training and promote a culturally respectful workplace culture. HR must lead the implementation of such training, ensuring it is structured, inclusive, and embedded across the organization and engage the right facilitators. 3. Providing Support for Emotional and Mental Well-being Supporting Indigenous employee well-being is another critical responsibility. To achieve this, organizational leaders must commit to fostering a culturally safe, trauma-informed workplace that respects Indigenous traditions, prohibits discrimination, and creates environments where Indigenous employees feel safe to speak up. Clear reporting avenues and prompt action to concerns should be addressed. HR’s part in this initiative is to provide Indigenous based employee assistance programs like Indigenous-specific counselling resources, elder support, and land-based healing programs where accessible. Also, promoting a supportive workplace culture, fostering inclusive team environments where Indigenous employees feel supported and valued. 4. Integrating Cultural Inclusion in Workplace Practices This is another shared responsibility between HR and leadership. HR plays a key role in designing and formalizing cultural inclusion practices such as starting corporate events with land acknowledgments, creating space for cultural practices like smudging, supporting flexible holidays for cultural celebrations, and ensuring that Indigenous memorial events such as the National Day for Truth and Reconciliation or Aboriginal Awareness Day are celebrated. The leadership role is to reinforce these commitments to cultural inclusion by openly supporting and participating in these initiatives, which shows that the organization regards cultural inclusion as a priority. 5.Supporting Career Advancement and Fair Performance Practices Finally, HR plays a vital role in designing clear, transparent paths for advancement and working with managers to implement fair and consistent application of performance standards and employee feedback systems. Organizational leaders are responsible for supporting employee growth and development, encouraging participation in career advancement pathways, and demonstrating commitment to equity and inclusion. The following experience report offers a real-world example of how the trust-building principles outlined above can be put into practice through partnership, flexibility, and shared accountability. Experience Report: Building Trust Through an Indigenous Employment Partnership by Rike Enss In 2024, my HR team attended a career fair at Norquest College where they were approached by leaders of the Indigenous Career Centre, an external facing program of the college located right next to Norquest. The Indigenous Career Centre (ICC) connects Indigenous talent s with their employer partners. So, the conversation was two-fold, finding an employer partner that could support employment opportunities. As a company who has Indigenous Partnerships as a strategic pillar and actively connects with Indigenous communities to support each other, we were very open to connecting and hearing how we can engage. From there, many conversations and meetings were held, where we got to know each other and actively connected on what this partnership could look like, as we are mostly a seasonal employer. Most of our jobs are entry level and all one needs are 3 safety tickets. Even that could be quite a challenge for some Indigenous job seekers. But the Indigenous Career Centre was there to help, and able to financially support job seekers with getting these tickets through funding or other means. Before the whole partnership could begin, a formal Pipe Ceremony was held in February of 2025, where leaders from both sides came together to ground our relationship and affirm our intention to walk together side by side, helping each other and our job seekers. As a company, we also knew we needed to be a bit more flexible than our usual approach, and that wasn’t hard to achieve. Partnering with ICC and consistent and open feedback and communication made this possible. In the spring of 2025, my HR team was actively recruiting from ICC. We started with 6 people entering into our weeklong training that is required to work as a safety watch. Of the 6, we had 1 person remaining who started working with us, but what a shining star! Even though we weren’t successful in having the other 5 start work, we have had great experiences and gained some valuable learnings. When we started our recruitment approach in the fall, we changed our process to allow for more time to obtain tickets, provide additional support during the process, and make sure expectations were clear and set. As a result, ICC was also able to source better candidates who would be a good fit for the oil and gas industry and potentially available to be away from home. Over time, the 2 partners understood each other's needs better, and both continue to learn the other’s needs. In the fall, we ended up hiring 6 people from the ICC. This spring 2026, we successfully trained 7 people from the Indigenous Career Centre. Being able to learn from each other and grow together is a very rewarding experience as an employer. Conclusion Creating a culturally safe and supportive workplace is essential to fostering belonging and well-being for indigenous employees. When leaders and HR create a culture that listens, learns, and acts with respect, trust is achieved. An inclusive environment not only supports Indigenous employees to thrive but also improves engagement, retention, and overall workplace relationships. Trust is built through accountability, and it is important that organizations align workplace practices with Truth and Reconciliation Commission of Canada’s Calls to Action and the United Nations Declaration on the Rights of Indigenous Peoples strengthens Indigenous inclusion efforts. Organizations should track metrics like retention, engagement, and psychological safety, while incorporating Indigenous voices through lived experiences. Organization should also publish their Indigenous inclusion commitments, report on their progress, and be honest when they fall short. Finally, acknowledging the long-term organizational risks of failing to build trust -such as reputational harm, reduced engagement, and limited talent attraction - would emphasize the strategic importance of sustained and accountable action. 
By Jessica Jaithoo May 19, 2026
Author: Deon Davidson , 2026 Social Media Committee Volunteer The evening began with laughter, conversation, and both familiar and new faces connecting during cocktail hour, while the sound of a talented violinist created the perfect atmosphere for the night ahead. But as the night went on, it became clear that the CPHR Alberta Member Recognition Gala was about much more than dressing up, enjoying a three-course meal, or taking photos. It was a celebration of the people who continue to shape and strengthen the HR profession across Alberta. From new professionals earning their CPHR designation to volunteers dedicating their time behind the scenes, the evening highlighted the power of leadership, service, and community within HR. The event also recognized the sponsors whose support helped make the celebration possible and brought the HR community together for such a memorable evening. The atmosphere throughout the night reflected something HR professionals work hard to create every day: recognition. But how often do HR professionals get recognized themselves? This evening was for that. Celebrating the People Behind the Profession The main highlight of the evening was the celebration of nominated HR professionals from across Alberta our jurisdiction, Alberta, Northwest Territories and Nunavut , whose leadership, service, and contributions have made a lasting impact on workplaces, organizations, and the profession as a whole. Another highlight was the recognition of new CPHR members. Becoming a CPHR takes commitment, hard work, and dedication to the profession. As new members stood to be recognized, the room celebrated not only their achievement, but also the future of HR leadership in Alberta. The evening also recognized volunteers who continue to support and grow the HR community. Many of these individuals spend countless hours helping behind the scenes, often without expecting recognition in return. How often do we stop to celebrate the people who help build stronger workplaces and stronger professional communities? The applause throughout the evening showed just how much their contributions matter. More Than Networking Between courses, conversations filled the room as HR professionals, students and leaders connected with one another. Some shared career advice. Others reflected on their HR journeys. Many simply enjoyed the chance to connect and celebrate with one another. Events like the Member Recognition Gala remind us that HR is more than just recruitment, policies, and procedures. It’s about what many HR professionals learnt when entering the career: it’s about people. For students and emerging HR professionals, the evening was also inspiring. Seeing experienced leaders recognized for their impact showed what is possible through service, leadership, and dedication. What can happen when professionals take time to celebrate each other instead of only focusing on deadlines, challenges, and busy schedules? The gala answered that question clearly: stronger connections, meaningful conversations, and a greater sense of community. A Standing Ovation That Captured the Spirit of the Evening As the evening came to a close, attendees experienced one of the most powerful moments of the night: the presentation of an award to a newly appointed Fellow CPHR. After a heartfelt speech, the room rose to its feet in a standing ovation. It was more than applause. It was a moment of respect, appreciation, and gratitude for someone whose contributions made a lasting impact on the profession and the people around them. The standing ovation captured the spirit of the entire evening. It showed the importance of recognizing people not only for what they achieve, but for how they help others grow along the way. How often do workplaces take the time to truly celebrate the people making a difference? Looking Ahead: Why You Won’t Want to Miss Next Year’s Gala The Member Recognition Gala was more than an award ceremony or a chance to dress up for the evening. It was a reminder of the power of recognition, community, and connection within the HR profession. For those who attended, the evening brought memorable conversations, inspiring moments, and a renewed appreciation for the people behind the profession. For those considering attending in the future, next year’s gala promises another opportunity to connect, celebrate, and be inspired by the individuals who help shape the future of HR in Alberta. So, start preparing now for next year’s celebration, whether that means growing your network, getting more involved in the HR community, supporting others in the profession, or even working toward your own CPHR designation. The next gala will be another opportunity to celebrate the people making a difference across Alberta’s workplaces and communities. Because sometimes the most meaningful moments happen when the people who spend their careers supporting others finally get celebrated themselves.
By Jessica Jaithoo May 5, 2026
Author: Nidhi Gandhi , 2026 Social Media Committee Volunteer Motherhood is often described as the world’s most demanding job, yet it rarely comes with a job description, a performance review, or a manual. It is a profound and often relentless act of stewardship that asks us to be an anchor, a strategist, and a source of support, sometimes all at once. For modern HR executives, this reality carries added complexity. Our professional lives are spent navigating organizational health, talent development, and culture. We shape workplace policies, advocate for employee well‑being, and bring the people perspective to the leadership table. When we step into the dual role of executive and mother, we aren’t simply balancing two lives; we are bringing together two complementary skill sets. As Deni Ruiz, Executive Director of People and Culture at Keyano College, explains: “In my role, I balance strategy with humanity, supporting leaders and employees, navigating change and complexity, and making tough decisions when needed. I am supported by an amazing team of professionals who care deeply for our colleagues, the College, and the community.” Being both an executive and a mother means showing up focused in the boardroom while also being a safe harbor at home. It requires constant recalibration and a willingness to redefine what success looks like at different stages of life. It also reinforces an important truth: empathy is not just a personal quality, it is a leadership asset. When we asked Deni how she transitions from mom mode to executive mode, she shared: “It’s less of a flip of a switch and more of a recalibration. I go from solving activities, snack logistics, and figuring out the root cause of meltdowns, to solving organizational challenges and understanding what motivates and engages people in the workplace. But at the core, both roles are about supporting people and making good, informed decisions, just at different complexity levels. A deep breath, a chai latte, and I’m in an executive mode. What I find a bit more challenging is transitioning back to ‘mom mode’ at the end of a long, busy day.” In this conversation, we look beyond titles to discuss the realities of nurturing a high‑level career while raising the next generation. Whether you are climbing the ladder, building a team, or navigating your own career path, this dialogue offers both reflection and reassurance that your path can evolve, and that is okay. How has motherhood shaped your approach to HR policies? Does it change how you view things like flexible work, benefits, or performance management? Motherhood has deepened my understanding of how policies land in real life. It’s made me more attuned to what employees are balancing outside of work, including growing demands related to child care, elder care, and mental health. That perspective has strengthened my support for flexible and inclusive workplaces, not as perks, but as tools for retention, productivity, and respect. Being a mom hasn’t lowered performance expectations; it has clarified how we enable people to meet them by recognizing the realities that shape today’s workforce and equipping leaders to respond thoughtfully. What is the most rewarding “full circle” moment you’ve had where your professional role and motherhood intersected? There are moments when I’m coaching my kids on family values, goal setting, or how to navigate conflict with their sibling, and other moments when I’m coaching leaders through difficult workplace conversations or career development decisions. I’ve realized I draw on the same patience, clarity, and empathy in both settings. Seeing those conversations handled well, and knowing they positively affect someone’s experience at work, feels like a true intersection of both roles. Just as each child is different, even within the same family, employees experience work differently. Understanding those realities helps build alignment and trust. What advice would you give to a mid ‑ career HR professional who is hesitant to pursue an executive role because they fear it will compromise their family life? It’s a valid concern. Executive roles come with more responsibility and mental load, but they also offer greater autonomy to shape how and when you work. The key is being intentional. Be clear on your non‑negotiables, choose organizations whose values align with yours, and remember that strong leadership includes modeling sustainable ways of working, not constant availability. If you could give a Mother’s Day gift to working moms, aside from a day off, what would it be? I’d give them the freedom to be genuine and true flexibility, the kind that is trusted, consistent, and free from career trade‑offs. When people don’t have to choose between being present at home and being seen as committed at work, that’s where working moms can truly thrive. The idea of perfect work‑life balance is overrated. Priorities shift over time, and only you and your family know what the right combination looks like in any given season. Deni’s journey reminds us that senior leadership and motherhood are not competing forces to be managed, but complementary roles that strengthen one another. The empathy cultivated at home makes us better leaders, just as strategic thinking at work helps us build stronger foundations for our families. As we celebrate Mother’s Day, let this conversation prompt reflection. You do not have to choose between being a successful professional and a present, nurturing parent. You can be both, and you can lead through both.
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