From Burnout to Hope: Get out of the Overwhelm and into a Future Better than Today

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Oct 2023
CPHR Alberta
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A red door is open to a cloudy sky in a room.

Author:  Lindsay Recknell 

I realized I’d lost my hope the day I recognized I got it back.

Totally innocuous moment – driving along, thinking of nothing important – when I sat up a little taller…and immediately slouched back down. Waves of emotion were rolling over me, from pride and relief, to fear and disappointment. I mean, I’m a reasonably self-aware person…how did I not recognize I’d lost my hope for the future?

To this point, I’d been basically functioning. Going to work, cooking (most!) meals, putting on pants, but it was this moment that I’d recognized that I was just going through the motions – that I’d stopped reaching for my goals, that I’d stopped really caring about my career and went from thriving to merely surviving. I was burnt out and hitting the proverbial bottom was the moment I’d realized it.

Burnout is a hot topic right now with 77% of survey respondents in a recent Deloitte marketplace survey saying they’ve experienced burnout at their current job, with more than half citing more than one occurrence. More than prolonged stress, burnout is characterized by moving from feeling like it’s all too much – too much work to do, too many expectations, too many deadlines – through to feeling like you don’t have enough – time, energy, motivation – to get it all done and by now you don’t even care. 

When you feel like you don’t have any more cares to give, that’s a good sign you’ve crossed from simply stressed out into burnout.

The Stress Cycle 

In a recent episode of her Unlocking Us podcast, Brene Brown interviews Drs. Emily and Amelia Nagoski, authors of a new book called Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle. A truly informative, entertaining and fascinating episode, they introduced me to a concept I wasn’t aware of before – the Stress Cycle. You can think about it like this – stressors in life cause you stress and once you’re feeling stressed, you do something to feel less stressed which closes the Stress Cycle. Just removing the stressor isn’t enough – when you finish that big project or pay off that debt or even break out of your bad relationship – unless you complete the Stress Cycle by doing something to actually reduce the feelings of stress in your life, you won’t feel less stressed. Stress is a chemical reaction in your body and you need to actually take action to change the chemical reaction from negative to positive.

Five Most Effective Ways to Stop the Stress Cycle 

A stressful part of feeling stressed is the time it takes to feel less stressed. How’s that for irony? But like the best things in life, when we prioritize completing the Stress Cycle, we can feel immediate positive impacts and the effects of prolonged stress can be reversed before we go into full blown burnout. In my personal experience, here are the five most effective ways to stop the Stress Cycle and come back from the edge of burnout.

Move Your Body 

Seems so cliched and overdone but like the best cliches, this one is also true. Take the stairs instead of the elevator, wash your dishes by hand instead of using the dishwasher, do a few stretches in your office. Honestly, any moment at all, no matter how quick or small, will have a positive impact by bumping up the production of your brain’s feel-good neurotransmitters, called endorphins.

Set Boundaries 

Boundaries are our limits of what we will and will not do. Identify what your personal boundaries are and then communicate them to others. This is probably the hardest part – the people most likely to be upset by any boundaries you communicate are those that are crossing your boundaries. Boundary crossing is a stressor in your life and you know now that stressors are what cause chemical stress so remove the stressor before burnout occurs.

Get Creative 

There’s a reason art therapy works. It’s a physical representation of your internal stressors and a really great way to purge negativity from your body and leave it all on the proverbial dance floor, paint canvas or concert hall. By communicating through creative expression, you foster self-awareness, boost self-esteem, and connect with others, all positive ways to close the Stress Cycle.

Hug - for a long time 

Physical touch has long been used as a method to reduce stress in premature babies so why wouldn’t it also work for us as adults? There is a lot of research out there to support the effectiveness of this kind of positive physical contact and as Drs. Emily and Amelia Nagoski explain on Brown’s podcast, “the research suggests that a 20 second hug can change your hormones, lower your blood pressure and heart rate and improve mood, all of which are reflected in the post hug increase in the social bonding hormone, oxytocin.” 

Laugh your butt off

Have you heard of Laughter Yoga? I thought it was fake until I learned of Dr. Madan Kataria, a family physician from India who modernized the teachings of earlier laughter pioneers from the 1960s. Dr. Kataria suggests that laughter promises to reduce feelings of stress, boost immunity, fight depression and leads to more positive thinking. In Laughter Yoga, you start with fake laughing until you feel so ridiculous that the laughter becomes real and the magic within your body starts to happen. It’s this kind of mouth-hanging-open, uncontrolled, belly-shaking laughter than can take you through the end of the Stress Cycle and change your stress chemicals from negative to positive.

Before my ah-ha moment when I realized I’d gotten my hope back, I didn’t realize how far into burnout I’d fallen due to the prolonged stress I’d been carrying around in my body. Even as the various stressors had been removed from my life, I realize now that I hadn’t really done anything to intentionally complete the Stress Cycle and reverse the negative chemical reaction in my body. Burnout is your body’s physical response to the impact of stressors in your life and it’s empowering to recognize that while the stressors themselves feel uncontrollable, I can take control over completing my Stress Cycle and take action to start to feel better. Takes work, and intention, and a change of priority but you too can implement any of these five ways to complete your own Stress Cycle and come back from the edge of burnout.

As an expert in hope and a Certified Psychological Health and Safety Advisor, Lindsay works with individuals and organizations to increase their levels of psychological health & safety in the workplace using Positive Psychology and the Science of Hope. She empowers individuals, strengthens teams and transforms organizations through her Mental Health Skills Training certificate program , Language of Mental Health digital subscription and wellness webinars. Lindsay lives in Calgary, Canada with her husband and their Golden Retriever, Dennis. 


The views and opinions expressed in this blog post belong solely to the original author(s) and do not necessarily represent the views and opinions of CPHR Alberta.

The views and opinions expressed in this blog post belong solely to the original author(s) and do not necessarily represent the views and opinions of CPHR Alberta.



Navigating Mental Health in the Workplace Amid Political Uncertainty

By Jessica Jaithoo • October 24, 2025
Author: Calgary Chapter Committee The political climate has become an undeniable force in our lives, influencing not only public discourse but also personal well-being. Whether it is uncertainty surrounding federal policies, international conflicts, or provincial conversations about autonomy, employees are increasingly bringing political anxiety into the workplace. For HR professionals, this growing tension presents unique challenges. The task is not to take sides, but to foster environments where mental health is supported and respectful dialogue can take place. According to the Mental Health Commission of Canada, political anxiety is not a passing trend. It is a persistent stressor with real consequences for how individuals feel and function at work. The Commission highlights how political stress mimics other forms of chronic anxiety, causing sleep disturbances, irritability, and a sense of hopelessness ( MHCC, 2024 ). Constant exposure to polarizing news and divisive topics can leave employees feeling overwhelmed. This emotional fatigue, if left unaddressed, affects focus, performance, and team dynamics. A recent CBC feature underscores the cumulative effect of ongoing political and economic instability. It describes how stress can build over time, eroding emotional resilience and making it harder for people to manage conflict, remain productive, or feel safe expressing themselves ( CBC, 2023 ). These dynamics are not just playing out in public forums; they are showing up in team meetings, informal conversations, and leadership decisions.  HR professionals often find themselves at the intersection of these pressures. They are expected to support others while managing their own reactions to difficult news and evolving policies. They are tasked with implementing wellness strategies, fostering respectful communication, and ensuring compliance with changing legislation. It is a complex and emotionally demanding role. However, there are practical ways HR professionals can help reduce the burden of political anxiety in the workplace. The goal is not to suppress conversation, but to provide thoughtful, respectful guidance and tools that help people navigate uncertainty together. 1. Normalize the Conversation Begin by acknowledging that political stress exists and can impact work. A short message in a wellness newsletter or internal briefing can go a long way. When people feel that their experience is valid, they are more likely to seek help and less likely to internalize stress. Headspace, a leader in workplace wellness, emphasizes that validating emotions is a foundational step in reducing their intensity ( Headspace, 2024 ). 2. Communicate Proactively and Clearly When organizations face potential impacts from political or economic changes, silence can worsen fear. Clear, honest communication builds trust. The Mental Health Commission of Canada cites a national survey in which over half of respondents said that uncertainty was more stressful than bad news itself ( MHCC, 2024 ). Leaders should not speculate, but they should share what is known and outline the steps being taken to support employees. 3. Expand Mental Health Support Ensure that all employees know how to access support, whether through an employee assistance program, mental health benefits, or external community resources. Consider adding or promoting mindfulness programs, mental health first-aid training, or virtual therapy services. Managers in particular need support, as they are often the first people employees turn to during moments of stress. 4. Provide Strategies to Employees for Managing Political Anxiety in the Workplace Limit news exposure to reduce anxiety and protect mental health through digital detoxes. Highlight shared values such as respect, integrity and collaboration to help anchor people – reinforce a strong organizational culture rooted in community. Encourage volunteering and community engagement to restore control and purpose, which are critical to mental well-being. Support ongoing self-care and stress management practices. 5. Reinforce Respectful Conduct and Psychological Safety Review your organization’s code of conduct, respectful workplace policies, and social media guidelines. Ensure that employees understand expectations around respectful communication. Reinforce that differing opinions are welcome, but harassment or retaliation are never acceptable. A psychologically safe workplace benefits everyone by fostering trust, encouraging open communication, and enhancing overall productivity and well-being. 6. Equip Managers with Tools Offer training for people leaders on how to recognize signs of stress and respond with empathy. Provide scripts or toolkits for addressing politically charged questions in a way that keeps conversations respectful and focused on shared purpose. HR professionals do not need to have all the answers to the political questions of the day. Their role is to create structures that protect employee well-being and promote a respectful, inclusive workplace. By encouraging open dialogue, providing clear communication, and expanding access to wellness resources, HR leaders can reduce the impact of political uncertainty and help their teams thrive. As the landscape continues to evolve, it is critical to stay grounded in compassion and clarity. Utilizing the above tools and strategies, HR professionals can be a steady and reassuring presence for their organizations in uncertain times.

Making Waves & Inspiring Connections in Our Mentorship Community of Practice

By Jessica Jaithoo • October 23, 2025
Every mentorship match has the potential to create a ripple – one that extends far beyond the program itself. In our January–June 2025 intake, the CPHR Alberta Mentorship Program received over 225 applications across four unique streams, resulting in 100 mentor-protégé pairings, 17 peer matches, and 7 student group cohorts. This momentum reflects the strength of our HR community and its commitment to shared growth and learning. This year, we invited participants to reflect on three powerful questions: How has this mentorship experience shaped your perspective, and how do you plan to share the wisdom you’ve gained with others in our community? How will participation in the mentorship program create a wave in your career and support the impact you leave on your workplace and broader community? What has been your 'golden nugget' from this experience that will leave a lasting ripple in your career? Their responses were as thoughtful as they were inspiring. Testimonial #1 One of the main benefits of mentoring relationships, aside from the enjoyment of getting to know a colleague, is the ability to consider current situations I am dealing with in light of the other person's experiences. Often, these relationships help me with fresh insights I can use to benefit my team and organization. Over the past few years, I have enjoyed the mentorship program, and have taken the opportunity to encourage others to consider the benefits of the program when chatting at CPHR functions, etc. - Bob Wiebe Testimonial #2 Through participation in the CPHR Alberta Mentorship Program, my sense of belonging in the profession has grown and I have gained a personal sense of connection to the community of practice that spurs me to continue to professionally grow to enable others to find their voice and professional belonging in our community to leave a lasting impact. - Amanda Van Haaften Testimonial #3 My golden nugget from this experience has been the realization of how powerful intentional communication and active listening can be in building trust and relationships, solving problems, and influencing outcomes. This insight has shifted how I approach conversations—whether with colleagues, clients, or leaders. It’s a simple concept, but its impact is lasting. - Archana Malhotra Throughout the intake, our Mentorship Committee stayed meaningfully connected with participants through support groups, live webinars, monthly mentoring e-newsletters, and on-demand micro-sessions – with more to come. Each touchpoint offered space to pause, reflect, and grow – together. Mentorship is never one-directional – it’s a cycle of giving, learning, and leading. We’re thrilled to welcome our new applicants for the upcoming intake and continue building a community rooted in connection and growth. Whether you're a mentor or protégé, you’ll gain valuable insights, meaningful relationships, and the chance to leave a lasting impact.

Strong Internal Controls Make Good Business Sense

By Jessica Jaithoo • October 16, 2025
Internal controls are not just a box on a checklist; they are a trust-building tool. When HR leads with transparency, integrity, and strong processes, it sends the message that the organization values trust and accountability. Internal controls can also protect against errors, fraud, and damage to its reputation. Internal controls support fair hiring, secure data management, and consistent documentation, helping HR stay aligned with laws, privacy standards, and compliance expectations. What are internal controls? Internal controls are an organization’s procedures, policies, and processes. They ensure: Compliance with laws, regulations, and policy Accuracy in reporting Overall efficiency and transparency in operations Internal controls include setting out approval authority, role-based system access, audit trails, and segregation of duties. Once your controls are in place, continuous monitoring them further reduce risk by identifying issues early and providing timely feedback on areas where additional training may be needed. Examples of HR internal controls and why an accountant might consider them important Hiring Background checks ensure individuals hired to handle sensitive data don’t have histories of financial misconduct Signed employment agreements support key inputs into the payroll process and can serve as audit documentation Approval workflow for hiring decisions help prevent unauthorized payroll expense s Payroll Segregation of duties between the person hiring and the person setting up payroll can prevent conflicts of interest and fraud Reconciliations of payroll reports with HR records help ensure records match the source data, which supports accurate financial reporting Compensation An assignment of authority for employee events (e.g., salary change, promotions) ensures changes are authorized and reduces the risk of unauthorized payments Supervisor approval on timecards ensures information sent to payroll is accurate Employee records Secure employee records ensure payroll, benefits, and compensation figures used in financial reporting are reliable and safe Tracking changes made to records provides a trail for internal and external auditors Policy and compliance Key company policies requiring an employee’s signature can mitigate financial risks and ensure employees are expected to be aware of an organization’s policies A whistleblower policy provides a mechanism to uncover fraud or misappropriation of an organization’s assets Access and data controls Role-based access to systems limits access to financial systems and reduces the risk of data manipulation Monitoring controls Exception reporting (e.g., duplicate payments) supports quick identification of errors and accuracy of financial reporting Internal HR audits help ensure HR-related financial activities have proper controls and the controls are working as designed By having an HR department that designs and implements internal controls, you are creating a stable system of checks and balances, minimizing risk in more ways than you might expect! About the author: Kristy Mielke CPA, CA fosters the professional growth of Alberta’s 32,000 Chartered Professional Accountants (CPAs) as the Director of Professional Development and Learning at CPA Alberta. She has previously worked in public practice and internal audit, and in addition to being a CPA, she is a Certified Internal Auditor and Certified Fraud Examiner.
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